Getting more out of groups

It's called "creating triangles" and it works on the principle that we are attracted to those who are attractive to others.

There are a lot of us out there that will pick one guy from a group to hustle and then move on, maybe very politely asking if others in the group would like a dance, but trying not to cause conflict within their circle. I'm here to tell you, however, that by doing this you are merely scratching the surface of the potential money you could stand to make off those men!

We as humans are instinctively programmed to compete for attention from the opposite sex. We all have different ways of doing it, but we are all subconsciously aware that the more people we attract, the more attractive we are, therefore, the more socially powerful we are. For those of you who are still blissfully unaware of the fact that power is ALWAYS at play in every little social interaction well, this one might not be for you.

What we are going to try and do is to proverbially get them to "win" your attention and play on the transgressive excitement of winning "the other guys girl" through the subtlety and insinuation of flirting. All this requires is a little investment of time and an ability to flirt in stealth mode. You'll probably want to do this on a night that is on the slower side where you can invest some quality time with your group.

Here's how to do it:

First you have to figure out the order in which your going to give your attention to the guys. In each group there will be a hierarchy amongst the men as to who is the most attractive. You've experienced it with your gf's going out on the town... there's the most attractive one, the least attractive one and the ones that fall in between. Your going to want to start with either the least attractive one (in 2 or 3 sets) or the next to least attractive (in 4 sets and higher) and flirt your way "up". The reason for this is 1. The least attractive will most likely either stop giving you sufficient attention to pull off this trick or give up hope to win your attention when he sees you flirt with one of the more attractive guys and 2. The more attractive guys will wonder why you didn't go for them... this will spark their natural instinct to try and compete for what they feel is rightfully "theirs". So if the hierarchy isn't immediately obvious don't waste time, just talk to the one who is most interested on you.

OK so now you've got your first victim... your sitting there chatting with him, maybe you've pulled him away for a dance or VIP or maybe you've gotten him to buy you a drink or maybe not. Let your eyes catch your next victims' eyes as your talking with #1. What your trying to do here is show #2 that your interested while keeping #1 totally unaware. Next, interject into something that #2 has said or include him in your convo with #1 .... what your trying to do here is prove your interest in #2 by including him.

At this point #2's heart is racing due to the transgressive nature of your interest and #1 is going to be fighting harder for your attention which, if obvious enough will spark the interest of the other members of the group, but hopefully it's not so hard that he feels like he's losing you. The goal is to make each guy feel like you like them the best.

OK well i could go on and on in this scenario, but i hope you've got the big picture here so i don't have to. It really shouldn't take too much of your time to do all of this and remember: your ultimate goal is to make money. Make sure your pulling each guy for dances as you go along. don't forget: the goal is to make each guy think you like him the best so when you pull #2 away make sure you flirtily (wow, is that a word) ask #1 if he minds. Make sure your very flirty when you do! Otherwise he'll get jealous or even worse see through your little trick!

An argument could be made over just how naive men can be when it comes to girls playing them.... which is what we as strippers are born to do. It's my personal experience that men will believe what they want to believe. I mean, our job is to make them think we like them and of course %99.9999 percent of the time we don't! This trick is ADVANCED. It takes sneakiness and finesse and sneaky-finesse to pull this one off.

****** For those of you who would prefer a not so sneaky version of "getting more out of groups" Just sit and talk with the group, see if anyone else is eying you (and one of them probably will since you've already been deemed attractive by one of the other members of his group) or have fun with it and ask #1 who he thinks would like a dance from you... I'd do it in a mischievous tone ;) I don't know, there's a lot of fun ways to get dances from more than one guy in a group, but the fact that you've already danced for someone else in their group makes you THAT much hotter to them. trust me. Transgressive, but true.